Best command to find the current apache processes is:

pstree | grep httpd

Alternative:

ps afx | grep httpd | wc

What is the number of max connection the server has been configured for?

grep -i maxclients /etc/httpd/conf/httpd.conf

When did apache hit max clients?

grep -i maxclients /var/log/httpd/error_log

Has it happened before? zgrep checks through ALL of the compresses and uncompressed logs, the * at the end of error represents all of the logrotated files:

zgrep -i maxclients /var/log/httpd/error_log*

What are the currently configured max connections?

grep -i maxc /etc/httpd/conf/httpd.conf | head -3

Ubuntu could have max clients configured in a number of different places, first place to look is:

grep -i maxc /etc/apache2/apache2.conf | head -4

or

grep -i maxc /etc/apache2/mods-enabled/mpm_prefork.conf

Current connections:

pstree | grep httpd

grep -i maxclients /var/log/apache2/error_log

Has it happened before?

zgrep -i maxclients /var/log/apache2/error_log*

Current connections:

pstree | grep apache

ps -H h -ylC httpd | perl -lane '$s+=$F[7];$i++;END{printf"Avg=%.1fMB\n",$s/$i/1024}'

ps -H h -ylC apache2 | perl -lane '$s+=$F[7];$i++;END{printf"Avg=%.1fMB\n",$s/$i/1024}'